Be patient...

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".

Emotional breakdown

Due to the fact that the lady is now encountering, she is suffering for emotional breakdown. She cannot help herself, she wants to help but then she thinks that she can’t do it without that man. Every night she always thinking about that man and she use to cry hard but nobody knows about that except her friend. She cannot accept that they were separated without any reason at all. This lady always asking, what is the meaning of love? How about the true happiness of love? Is this kind of emotional breakdown is part of that love? Can that lady do something about it in order for her to escape to that breakdown? How can she avoid that man in this case? Why is it if there's a love there's always pain? Where is the happiness? For me, it is really hard to fall in love. You have to be ready in all aspects when it comes to love, because you will never know what will happen to you in the future.

Still not feeling well

It’s been two days after the shocking moment and still the lady is not feeling well. She used to cry at night as if end of the world for her. She cannot accept the fact that the man doesn’t love her anymore. And she cannot accept the fact that the man decides without any valid reasons at all. The lady doesn’t want to go for work because she cannot work hard, she always thinking about the man. She continuously sending messages to the man asking what is the real reason why they have to end already? But then the man doesn’t even answer her back, no reply coming from that man.

Time to move on

It was early in the morning when the lady woke up and went to the bathroom. She was crying inside the bathroom. She cannot do anything, what she wants is to talk to that man. It’s a nice feeling to fall in love but too painful when someone has decided to part ways. It was ten in the morning when she arrives and starts working. All of her colleagues were asking about her, why she is too silent, what happened? The lady opened her problem to her friend in the company. While telling the stories she started to cry again. The man who really likes her very much asked her about what happen. The lady doesn’t want to talk already because she was afraid to cry again since she’s already tired of crying and thinking. The lady’s friend and her friend’s boyfriend called her, and gave her some advises that its time to move on. How can she move on if there’s something reminds her about the man? But the lady laughed when her friend told her to throw all the not too expensive things and remain those expensive. But how can she throw the things if those things are memorable to her heart? How can the lady move on? Its hard to move on but she have to try, but she is helpless.

Midnight and it was ended...

One day, the lady went to her friend’s house just to have some fun. When suddenly somebody was calling her mobile. She answered the call and the man told her that he is waiting for her at the parking area. The lady was in a hurry because after a long time she will meet the man again . That man is her boyfriend. When she entered the car she greeted the man, but the man didn’t answer her back. This lady was thinking about what happen? Why this man turned to be moody? She asked the question to the man and the man answered her, “nothing”.

What the lady did is to talk and talk and talk when suddenly this man told the lady that he needs a break, that maybe they can rest for a while. The lady was surprised about what she heard from her boyfriend. She ignored that thinking that her boyfriend is not serious. Then the man repeated that again. There was a shocking moment that time, which the lady could not speak because of that decision. A tear coming from the eye of the lady fell down to her lips, she asked, “what’s the reason?”, and then the man told her that he was not at peace, that there is something bothering him. The lady asked the man if there’s a problem. But then, the man remains silent, he just ignored the question that turns the lady cried.

It was midnight when they reached the house of the lady. The lady cannot stopped on crying, until the man holds the hand of the lady saying that to take good care of herself always, don’t think too much of him, he also told the lady that once she finds someone new just tell him. That night was a big headache to the lady. What the lady wishes for is all the best, but then she failed again. All the pain that she kept inside her heart was already opened to her boyfriend, the man cried also. Because the lady knows the weakness point of her man, that’s why the man really hates dramatic person because he also a dramatic person. That he cannot control his tears. That night was a shocking moment, no relationship would want to end into nothing. Every relationship wanted to grow more until they end up to a marriage. But as for this lady, she’s not successful when it comes to love, she always failed. There was a time that the lady is already hopeless but sometimes she was a hardheaded because she doesn’t mind about what other people’s advises. She took that advises of her friends but sometimes the lady always listening to her heart. This lady is a stupid person, if the man doesn’t care about her already then its time to move on.

Went out to have some fun

I woke up at around 9:30 in the morning and I decided to visit my friend in Deira. I took taxi so that I can arrive there earlier and also because it’s hot outside. I paid the taxi cab for the amount of AED25 (gosh! That’s 300+ in peso). I reached the flat at around 11am and all of them were complete because I didn’t know that there’s a celebration, it was Ana’s Birthday one of my friend flatmates. I enjoyed the moment when I’m spending my weekend with them, ang sarap pala ng feeling. It was 12 midnight when my friend called and picked me in Deira.